This one's for Bec

May 17, 2012



Well, we're just three weeks away from the Rock 'n' Roll Marathon. My injuries are under control save for the regular (really annoying) knee pain, but I have to admit it hasn't been a stellar training season this time.


I'm about two minutes per mile slower than my best marathon time, and I've resigned myself to adopting a run/walk method to get through the 26.2 miles.


One might call this season disappointing if it weren't for two facts:

  • First, this is not MY season. This is Rebecca's season, Rebecca's race. If I were running this for me, I would have dropped to doing the half marathon instead of the full by now. But since I'm running the race in honor of Rebecca and the first race we ran together, I am tackling the whole enchilada, no matter what.

  • Second, running a slow, somewhat painful, "just finishing is an honor" race seems absolutely appropriate. When I ran with Rebecca, I was pretty much exactly where I am now, weight-wise, injury-wise, prep-wise. Rebecca and I took 6.5 hours to cross the finish line, and it makes me proud, believe it or not, to face up to this challenge with the exact same abilities I had when she and I ran together.

So, here we go... on with the real challenge... on with the true goal.... to do the miles with the inspiration of you guys and my memories of my run with Rebecca.




Apr 02, 2012

My dear friends,


We're truly getting close to Champion status to reach the ultimate honor for Rebecca -- that's where we get $5000 over our goal. I keep saying "our" instead of "my" goal because this has been such an incredible group effort. I'm so very touched by the many people who have supported this effort, and I really, truly couldn't have done it without you.


I have to say I'm still a little daunted by how much is left to raise. That's why I'm doing a webinar for charity next week, and I hope to keep trying to find ways to raise the remaining 20% to reach our goal.


Rebecca's death made me angry -- cancer makes me angry. And raising money for cancer research is the only way I've figured out to channel that anger into something that may help people someday.


Thanks again for all your help.


PS -- If you're new to this website, you should read Rebecca's story here...






Feb 20, 2012

Less than half a mile from my new house is a street called Marathon, which intersects with another street named SUCCESS! How could my marathon goal for Rebecca not be achieved with a clear sign like this?


Jan 26, 2012

I'm very sad to say Rebecca lost her fight with cancer early this week. I will attend her services tomorrow, the day before our first session for my marathon training season.


I met Rebecca that very first session five years ago, and we ran together all season because we were on the slower end of the spectrum. I am humbled by the fact that I can go back and do this race in her honor.


Thank you for all the support you've offered me and her family. It matters. It really does.

Jan 16, 2012

My friends, I have some sad news. The results of Rebecca's scan last week revealed that the cancer is growing too fast. The drugs she had been taking were not helping, and they are stopping the treatments and talking to hospice to make her as comfortable as possible. They don't know when the cancer will take over completely, but they're guessing it'll be a matter of weeks.


Yeah, I know. We went from having dinner 11 months ago to accepting sad, sad news less than a year later. Not fair. Not fair. Not fair. I could go on and on about how angry, how helpless, how very sad I feel about this injustice. But what can one do? Cancer has destroyed her lungs and taken over her body. She has fought the brave fight, and soon she will be at peace. We have no ability to stop this, as much as we would like to.


But something happened recently that gave me new hope for the future -- for people like Rebecca in your life and mine. After a team run the other day, a man and his wife were walking near our home base. They asked what we were doing, and I proudly announced that our little team had raised more than $60,000 and growing in the fight against cancer!


He paused for a minute and then quietly said, "Thank you." Five years ago, this man was given a few months to live, and now he was officially a cancer survivor. At the time, Rebecca was still going on the prognosis of "a few months," so all of a sudden it hit me that I had assumed that the doctors were right without factoring in Rebecca's spirit and the miracle factor!


So, even though it turns out that the doctors were right about Rebecca, there are people out there who survive cancer -- many, many people. And YOU make that possible with your support and donations. When you give money to LLS, you are helping fund valuable research that can help people with grim diagnoses.


So again, despite the sad news, I am full of hope that what we're doing here will make a difference in someone else's life. And I thank you for your help.

Make a Donation

We are no longer accepting donations for this event, however you can still make a donation to The Leukemia & Lymphoma Society.

Supporter Comments

"Good luck on the Race Beth! It's my Grandfather's Birthday today, and he lost his life to Cancer."
Alexander Lomas
Wed Dec 7 12:14:09 EST 2011
"good luck beth!!! what a wonderful way to honor your friend :) big hugs! GO TEAM!!"
Alisha
Wed Dec 7 12:56:24 EST 2011
"Thank you for doing this in honor of Rebecca, Beth! Good luck with your upcoming race."
Erik Staley
Thu Dec 8 12:52:38 EST 2011
"Thanks for doing all yo do!!"
eric witmayer
Sat Dec 10 02:09:53 EST 2011
"Beth, Thanks for the E-mail. Your Kansas family is very proud of you for doing this for your special friend. Hugs to you both and Good Luck. Love you, Aunt Vicki"
Vicki Ziesenis
Tue Dec 13 12:18:07 EST 2011
"For Rebecca & for Beth's 4.59.59!!"
Coach Sam
Fri Dec 16 12:03:21 EST 2011
"Thank you Beth! You are such a gift to all of us!!"
Monica Mc
Tue Dec 20 08:16:36 EST 2011
"You are an inspiration ♥"
Heather Law
Tue Dec 20 12:14:52 EST 2011
"Hi Beth! Thank you for the kind reminder...Good luck on your next race and prayers to your friend! "
Mary Ann Rodolfo
Thu Dec 22 05:06:44 EST 2011
"Go Beth!!, beat the big C for Bec and everyone else."
Dale Gilchrist
Fri Dec 23 04:54:55 EST 2011
"Beth, what an awesome thing you're doing for your friend! Good luck & I hope you reach your goal ~ you go girl!!"
Julie Starr
Fri Dec 30 12:34:27 EST 2011
"Go Beth!!!! Great job on your FUNdraising!!"
She'la Clark
Fri Dec 30 05:50:00 EST 2011
"Go Beth!!!"
Kyoko Yamamura
Tue Jan 3 01:26:00 EST 2012
"You Rock! Thanks for your efforts in making a difference!"
Jittery Joe's Coffee
Thu Jan 12 11:53:17 EST 2012
"For the 101 reasons I love you"
Melissa Houston
Sat Jan 21 11:38:23 EST 2012
"You're such an inspiration!"
Ruth Carlson
Mon Feb 6 06:57:18 EST 2012
"We love you even more than Melissa H...Just Sayin' :) Go Beth Z!"
The Awesome Mr & Mrs. Grove
Fri Feb 17 10:48:11 EST 2012
"Go Beth!! For Bec.."
Katy V
Thu Feb 23 04:06:45 EST 2012
"For your friend, Bec. Good luck, Beth..."
Helen Dalziel
Wed Feb 29 07:31:21 EST 2012
"Go Beth Go!!! Thanks for the SD Half bib!!!"
Whitney Fichtelberg
Tue Mar 6 11:55:39 EST 2012
"In memory of Beth"
Carol campbell
Thu Mar 8 12:33:43 EST 2012
"Best wishes on behalf of Higher Logic!"
Andy Steggles
Mon Apr 2 06:52:53 EDT 2012
"Keep on rockin' Beth, you are a Champion!!!"
Christine & Rick
Mon Apr 2 10:26:26 EDT 2012
"Beth - Your support to this cause and your friend is amazing. Keep your spirits high!"
Christopher Uschan
Mon Apr 16 11:14:13 EDT 2012
"You are amazing!!!"
Emily Buck
Tue Apr 17 10:45:15 EDT 2012
"Hi Beth, You so inspire me! My prayers are with your mom as she continues to battle bravely. Love,Christine"
Christine & Mike
Fri May 4 06:52:42 EDT 2012
"Beth, you are a CHAMPION for sure!!!!! Good luck at RNR..."
Christy
Mon May 7 11:51:46 EDT 2012
"Thanks Beth for helping the goal to find a cure."
Paulette
Fri May 18 03:48:20 EDT 2012
"Fantastic job Beth, rock it all the way to the finish! -Joe"
Joe Cheverie
Fri May 18 05:32:15 EDT 2012

My Fundraising Total

104%
104 %

Make a Donation

We are no longer accepting donations for this event, however you can still make a donation to The Leukemia & Lymphoma Society.

In Honor of

Rebecca Reza

My Thanks To

Votenet Solutions In... $500.00
Bare Back Grill Fund... $385.00
DJ Rausa $255.00
Anonymous $250.00
Sarah Ziesenis $250.00
Webinar Proceeds $165.00
Ingrid Louie $150.00
james simon $123.45
The Awesome Mr &... $102.00
Melissa Houston $101.00
Govenar Chiropractic... $100.00
Andrew Amuso $100.00
craig maccullough $100.00
Paulette $100.00
Andy Steggles $100.00
Awesome Alexis and P... $100.00
Lawrence Garcia $100.00
Karla Seyb-Stockton $100.00
She'la Clark $100.00
Lisa Perry $100.00
Jeff Morrison $100.00
Raquel Vargas-Whale $100.00
Robin H $100.00
Scott Ziesenis $100.00
For Rebecca -- Keep ... $100.00
REI Gift Wrapping $80.00
Sales of donation ja... $75.00
Charles Amuso $50.00
Joe Cheverie $50.00
Maggie and Ed Lowe $50.00
Christy $50.00
Eric Pilmore $50.00
Carol campbell $50.00
Whitney Fichtelberg ... $50.00
Bruce Turkel $50.00
Lawrence Garcia $50.00
Nichole Brown $50.00
Amy Strasner $50.00
carol morris $50.00
Coach Sam $50.00
eric witmayer $50.00
Erik Staley $50.00
Andy Guevara $50.00
Cheryl Greene $50.00
BBG Gaslamp $40.00
Christopher Oliver $40.00
Carissa McMasters $40.00
Christine & Rick... $35.00
Vicki Ziesenis $35.00
Aaron Puttroff $30.00
Go Team! $30.00
Helen Dalziel $30.00
Susan Fenner $30.00
GO BRONCOS! $30.00
Dale Gilchrist $30.00
Sharron Frisby $25.00
Joseph Rausa $25.00
LaDawn Allen $25.00
Monica McCorkle $25.00
Michael Barry $25.00
Paul Wehking $25.00
Rogers Cadenhead $25.00
sondra Lagnado $25.00
Joe Cheverie $25.00
Ruth Carlson $25.00
Leslie Muench $25.00
Sherrie Rosenberger $25.00
Scott Ziesenis $25.00
Jittery Joe's Coffee... $25.00
Kimberly Walker $25.00
Lisa Munday $25.00
Melanie Barbosa $25.00
Rogers Cadenhead $25.00
Marsha Kramer $25.00
Mary Ann Rodolfo $25.00
Leslie Muench $25.00
Jen McVeay $25.00
James Rider $25.00
Craig Yolles $25.00
Monica Mc $25.00
Florence Todd $25.00
Jamison and Ashton B... $25.00
Greg Young $25.00
Bryan Spencer $25.00
Debbie Beyler $25.00
Laurie Houston $25.00
Katherine Rausa $25.00
Alisha $25.00
Hope Jara $25.00
Jim Sakrison $25.00
Catherine Clarke $25.00
Gina Sutherland $25.00
Joanne Olson $25.00
Andrea Braxton $20.00
The League Chiroprac... $20.00
The Rosenbergers $20.00
james simon $20.00
Kyoko Yamamura $20.00
DavisFIT $20.00
debbie kempinski $18.00
Kat Michaels $15.00
Elizabeth Cunningham... $15.00
Erin Patterson Murzy... $10.00
Jennifer Jones $10.00
Alvin Gardner $10.00
Whole Health Chiropr... $10.00
Alia Snyder $10.00
Dale Gilchrist $10.00
Julie Starr $10.00
Heather Law $10.00
Frough Kamali $10.00
Kenneth Bingham $10.00
LaDawn Allen $10.00
Alexander Lomas $10.00
Meg Tully $10.00
Coach Sam $5.00
Terrie from LLS $5.00
Jennifer Jones $5.00
Christine & Mike...
Katy V
Emily Buck
Christopher Uschan
Princess Lorelei
Shayla Tarp

Supporter Comments

"Good luck on the Race Beth! It's my Grandfather's Birthday today, and he lost his life to Cancer."
Alexander Lomas
Wed Dec 7 12:14:09 EST 2011
"good luck beth!!! what a wonderful way to honor your friend :) big hugs! GO TEAM!!"
Alisha
Wed Dec 7 12:56:24 EST 2011
"Thank you for doing this in honor of Rebecca, Beth! Good luck with your upcoming race."
Erik Staley
Thu Dec 8 12:52:38 EST 2011
"Thanks for doing all yo do!!"
eric witmayer
Sat Dec 10 02:09:53 EST 2011
"Beth, Thanks for the E-mail. Your Kansas family is very proud of you for doing this for your special friend. Hugs to you both and Good Luck. Love you, Aunt Vicki"
Vicki Ziesenis
Tue Dec 13 12:18:07 EST 2011
"For Rebecca & for Beth's 4.59.59!!"
Coach Sam
Fri Dec 16 12:03:21 EST 2011
"Thank you Beth! You are such a gift to all of us!!"
Monica Mc
Tue Dec 20 08:16:36 EST 2011
"You are an inspiration ♥"
Heather Law
Tue Dec 20 12:14:52 EST 2011
"Hi Beth! Thank you for the kind reminder...Good luck on your next race and prayers to your friend! "
Mary Ann Rodolfo
Thu Dec 22 05:06:44 EST 2011
"Go Beth!!, beat the big C for Bec and everyone else."
Dale Gilchrist
Fri Dec 23 04:54:55 EST 2011
"Beth, what an awesome thing you're doing for your friend! Good luck & I hope you reach your goal ~ you go girl!!"
Julie Starr
Fri Dec 30 12:34:27 EST 2011
"Go Beth!!!! Great job on your FUNdraising!!"
She'la Clark
Fri Dec 30 05:50:00 EST 2011
"Go Beth!!!"
Kyoko Yamamura
Tue Jan 3 01:26:00 EST 2012
"You Rock! Thanks for your efforts in making a difference!"
Jittery Joe's Coffee
Thu Jan 12 11:53:17 EST 2012
"For the 101 reasons I love you"
Melissa Houston
Sat Jan 21 11:38:23 EST 2012
"You're such an inspiration!"
Ruth Carlson
Mon Feb 6 06:57:18 EST 2012
"We love you even more than Melissa H...Just Sayin' :) Go Beth Z!"
The Awesome Mr & Mrs. Grove
Fri Feb 17 10:48:11 EST 2012
"Go Beth!! For Bec.."
Katy V
Thu Feb 23 04:06:45 EST 2012
"For your friend, Bec. Good luck, Beth..."
Helen Dalziel
Wed Feb 29 07:31:21 EST 2012
"Go Beth Go!!! Thanks for the SD Half bib!!!"
Whitney Fichtelberg
Tue Mar 6 11:55:39 EST 2012
"In memory of Beth"
Carol campbell
Thu Mar 8 12:33:43 EST 2012
"Best wishes on behalf of Higher Logic!"
Andy Steggles
Mon Apr 2 06:52:53 EDT 2012
"Keep on rockin' Beth, you are a Champion!!!"
Christine & Rick
Mon Apr 2 10:26:26 EDT 2012
"Beth - Your support to this cause and your friend is amazing. Keep your spirits high!"
Christopher Uschan
Mon Apr 16 11:14:13 EDT 2012
"You are amazing!!!"
Emily Buck
Tue Apr 17 10:45:15 EDT 2012
"Hi Beth, You so inspire me! My prayers are with your mom as she continues to battle bravely. Love,Christine"
Christine & Mike
Fri May 4 06:52:42 EDT 2012
"Beth, you are a CHAMPION for sure!!!!! Good luck at RNR..."
Christy
Mon May 7 11:51:46 EDT 2012
"Thanks Beth for helping the goal to find a cure."
Paulette
Fri May 18 03:48:20 EDT 2012
"Fantastic job Beth, rock it all the way to the finish! -Joe"
Joe Cheverie
Fri May 18 05:32:15 EDT 2012